ya dawo mata sabo kamar yanzu. Ita da kanta sai tayi ta dariya ita kadai tana qara gode wa Allah.

Takan yi wani tunani wato 'komai dai da lokacin

shi.' Idan taga yadda ya'yan Nazeer su biyu suke cika gidan da hayaniya. Da tuni fa yaranta ne. Sai tayi saurin kwab'ar kanta "Kada ki zama mara godiyar Allah Hafsah kowa da wanda Allah ya rubuta zai aura a rayuwa.

Amma tana tuno Ukhashatunta da yadda y

ake sai taji wani farinciki mara misaltuwa har ta _kirashi da daya tamkar da dubu!!_

Tanajin kunyar mama yadda take zaunar da ita tana koya mata abubuwa babu wata shakka.

Ya zame mata dabi'a kullum kafin su fara gyaran jiki sai tayi mata nasiha da

nusar da ita yadda rayuwar aure take.

Takan fada mata ko yaushe.

_Rayuwar aure wata iriyar rayuwa ce wacce ba zaki taba gane ya take ba har sai kinyi ta. Tana da matuk'ar dadi sannan akwai wahala da kalubale acikin ta amma idan har kika saka hak'uri k

omai zaki same shi da sauki._ Ita zaman ibada ne dole ki hadu da abubuwa masu dadi da kuma akasinsa. Amma matuk'ar kika sa aranki ibada kike to zaki sami komai da sauk'i.

_Kuskure da yanmata kuke yi shine kunfi fifita soyayya akan komai cikin rayuwar

aure._

_Duk da tabbas itace ginshiki amma kuma hak'uri da biyayya sune makaman yaki da kowacce irin fitina._

Ina son ki rike abubuwan nan da zan fada miki.

Ki rike tsafta da kamshi

Sai kuma ki zama mai ka mun kai da biyayya kada ki zama mai girman

kai ga mijinki.

Hafsah ta koyi abubuwa cikin sati hud'un da tayi tun daga girke girke data k'ara gogewa dasu sai kuma dabarun zama da miji da zamantakewar rayuwa ita kanta. Adduoi kuwa kullum cikin yin su take babu dare babu rana.

Bata iya sanarwa

da Ukhashatu cewa bata gida ba saboda nauyinshi da take ji sai dai idan ya nuna yana son ganinta ta bashi uzuri. Ya k'osa sosai har yake fad'a mata.

"Don Allah ayi hakuri amarya adaina jamin rai ina son ganinka Allah."

Babu abinda take mishi sai dar

iya wanda da ya gaji sai ya sami lokaci yaje gidan.

Mufida ce ta fada mishi tana Kabuga.

Ya dawo gida asanyaye.

Yana dawowar kuwa ya kirata.

Tana dagawa taji yanayin shi kamar ba shi ba.

"Kin kyauta nagode."

Take tasha jinin jikanta.

Cike da farga

ba tace hubby me ya faru kuma."?

"Hmm baki sani ba."?

Um."

Tace dashi.

Okey ya wuce nagode kawai.!!

Tayi shuru tana tunani me tayi toh."?

Sai ta marairaice.

Please Dear meya faru ne."?

"Hmm nace miki babu komai fah."

Please ta sake cewa.

Wai da g

aske kike baki ce san me kikayi ba."

Murya cike da rauni tace.

Allah bansani ba I'm sorry plz tell me."

Ya danja dogon numfashi sannan yace.

"Meyasa zaki je unguwa baki sanar min ba."?

Take annurin fuskar ta ya dawo tace cikin shagwaba.

"Dear mama

ne fa ta aikani sati na daya ma tace sai biki saura sati biyu na dawo."?

"What.. ina kika je haka ya fada a tsorace."

Abin ya bata dariya har tayi ta afili sannan tace "ina Kabuga gidan Yayar Mum dinmu.

"Hmm baki fad'a mini ba koh."?

I'm sorryy luv.

"

Ban hak'ura ba.

Tace plzzz"!!

Ya d'anyi shuru kafin yace.

To fad'amin me kikaje yi haka da har zaki dade kuma baki fad'a min ba."?

Hafsah ta bude baki sannan ta rufe kafin ta lalubi abincewa don bata son tayi b'aran b'arama.

Dear sallama naje mata

fa.

"Hmm kuma har 1month koh."?

"Oh my God!! ta fada a zuciyarta. Yau na gamu da dan Jarida.

Dearrrh!!

Ta ja sunan kamar ta k'osa.

Shima yace uhum."?

Na zauna gidan fa da so mum bazata bari na yi kwanaki kadan ba.

"Okeyy shima yace.

Yaushe zan ga

nki toh plzzz kada ki hanani ganinki nayi missing dinki so bad dear plzzz"

Tayi mishi yar dariya.

"Really fah kike min dariya dama ke baki damu ba koh."?

ta shagwabe tace "Noo Dear.!!

"Umm bawani nan..in zo gobe ba don hali na ba."?

Tomorrow!!?

Yess"

Yace.

"Ka bari sai day after goben."

"Ok" yace mata sannan yayi dif.

Tasan fushi yayi don haka ta mishi dariya itama.

"I'm joking Dear kaxo goben kaji nima inason ganinka.

Ukhashatu ya lumshe ido saboda jin dadi.

"Thank you WiFi.

"U wlcm Data.!!

Tace mishi.

Suka sheke da dariya "Hmm ke koh..??

"Me kike so in taho miki dashi.

Ta girgiza kai kamar yana ganinta. "Nothing Dear.

"Ban yarda ba."

Tayi murmushi "Okey You You and You.!!

Yayi murmurshin jin dad'i "Amarya me wayo.!!

"Come with you al

one." Ta sake fad'a.

Ya kara darawa "Nak'i din."

"Idan kukazo ba yanda nace ba zaku koma.!! tace.

Lokacin kuma tajiyo mama na kiranta sai lokacin ta tuna girki take duk da dama su aiki amma Mama sata take don ta saba sosai.

"Mum na kirana byee.

"Ok dear kije ki gaida mum."

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Biki saura sati biyu Basheer ya dira. Duk wasu shirye shirye sun tsara shi babu tsawwalawa saboda amaryar da angon basu san bid'a. Duk wani wanda ya dace yasan da bikin zuwa lokacin ya sani. Ha

fsah ta tura katinan gayyata ga contact d'inta.

Kowa na mata fatan alkhairi. Musamman Aysha Daheer dake da 'yaya biyu a lokacin. Su Nasreen sune organisers na komai.

Za'ayi kamu ne had'i da kauye Day sai Dinner sai kuma mother's eve. Ranar asabar k/ am

arya.

Banda murnar Abbah data fi ta mama fitowa fili ita saboda kunya. Babu wanda za'ace yafi kowa farinciki da bikin kamar Basheer.

Har siyayya yayo wa Yayarshi da kudin shi shima a tashi bidi'ar ya kirkiro da wani event Arabian night."

Dole aka saka

shi a manhaja.

Za'a fara bikin ranar Laraba a gama Asabar.

Batun had'uwa wajen amarya babu misaltuwa tayi kyau sosai tasha gyaran jiki.

Sai ana saura sati biyu sannan aka kawo lefe.

Masha Allah baby k'arya aciki anyi abune daidai karfi akwatuna se

t biyu golden da silver colour.

Kaya sunyi sosai Auntynsu Ukhashatu tayi kokari na had'o kaya masu inganci.

Kowa sai sa albarka yake ana yabawa.

Jamila tazo taga kaya tasa albarka tayi murna sosai itama.

Har zuwa satin biki inda ango yayiwa amarya

wuyar gani haka itama saboda hada-hada.

An fara Biki cikin nishadi da nasara Hafsah taga Masoya tako ina haka Ukhashatu har wadanda batayi tunanin gani ba sai da ta gani bata bige da mamaki ba sai da taga Basma a wajen dinner ta ya kayi ta samu card a

dmit oho ko kuma babu mamaki tunda katin yaje hannun yan makarantar su da dama.

Bikin yayi dad'i an gabatar da GAME na amarya da ango inda suka kayatar da jama'a. Biki yabar tarihi.

Daga k'arshe ranar asabar misalin k'arfe 11:00pm aka shaida daurin aur

en *UKHASHATU ABUBAKAR KHADI DA HAFSAH H HAMID.*

Farin ciki wajen ango baya misaltuwa ya gaza boye hakoranshi kowa albarka yake sa mishi da fatan alkhairi.

Su Fadwa an samu k'awa Amira tun farkon kayaniyar bikin suka jone saboda halinsu yazo kusan d'

aya.

Amarya tasha kuka musamman sanda aka daura mata aure inda ta tabbatar yau ba ita babu kwanan gidan Abbanta.

Hajiyarsu (kakarsu) ke ta tsokanar ta wai ana so ana kuka don itama ba karamin farinciki take da auren ba.

Da yamma yan daukar amarya s

uka zo. Amarya tana rizgar kuka haka maman ya Nazeer ta sata tayi wanka ta shirya tasha wankan turaruka har suka fara damunta.

D'akin Abbanta aka kaita wanda Dakyar ya daure ya iya yi mata takaitacciyar nasiha da addu'oi wanda shima daga karshe rauni ya h

ana shi k'ara sawa. Hakan yasa Hafsah kara fashe wa da kuka..

Mama kam babu abinda ta iya ce mata. Amma dole jama'a suka sa ta ta sa mata albarka. Tasha adduoi.

An kaita gidan khady inda Hajiyar Ukhasha ta bata kyauta ka sun karb'i amarya hannu bibiy

u sannan ta bada wata tsadaddiyar alkyabba su Fadwa suka d'orawa amarya akan kayanta.

Daga k'arshe an kai amarya gidan ta bisa rakiyar yan uwa abokan arziki.

Gida ya tsaru kowa sai yabawa yake amarya tasha kaya sai godia ga iyaye.

An barta ita kad

ai yayin da kukanta ya kara tsananta don ma gidan estate ne ba ita kadaice a ciki ba. Maman ya Nazeer ce ta hana abar kowa saboda akwai tazara kuma dare ya fara.

Amarya tayi jugum cike da tsoro shuru amma ango ba zo ba.

Shi kam yana can Abba na mis

hi nasiha sai daga karshe abokan shi suka taho domin raka shi. Sunyi musu takaitacciyar nasiha agurguje saboda dukka sun baro iyali.

Daga karshe ango ya tafi raka su ya dan Jima kafin ya dawo.

Ya dawo ya tarar da amarya a rakub'e saboda tsoro yayi

murmurshi sannan ya nufe ta cike da wani irin shauk'i ji yake kamar bashi ba. A bude min fuskar mana amarya....

Hafsah ta tsinci kanta cikin wani yanayi mai dad'i cikin rayuwar aurenta..sosai angonta ke tattalinta da nuna mata kulawa ta yardar wa k

anta tabbas Ukhasha shine dai dai da rayuwar ta kuma zabin Allah ne.

Ba zata tab'a kwatanta soyayyar shi da k'warewar shi wajen iya nakaltar komai nata da iya sata nishadi da Yusuf ba sam.. tana godewa Allah duk sanda ta budi ido ta tuna Ukhasha ne amatsa

yin mijinta.

Ko yaushe shi maiyi mata hidima ne ta ko wanne fanni ga barkwanci da sata nishadi..sai dai kasancewar shi dan adam itama ta fahimci abubuwa da dama game dashi.

-Yana son mace ta dinga mishi hidima.

-Sannan yana da fushi sai dai ya iya

mallakar fushin shi. Ba ko yaushe ne idan yayi fushi take fahimta ba a da sai daga baya ta gane duk sanda ya tambayi abu sannan a lokacin kuma ya nuna abarshi, koda fuskarshi bata nuna ba to abadini fushi yayi.

Hakan yasa dole ta koyi abubuwan da suke

saurin sauke fushin shi kuma ta zama jaruma wajen iya sarrafa shi. Shi kan shi baya iya dogon fushi da ita. Takan jin jina mishi kan komai dayi mishi godia akan komai yayi

mata. Da kanshi yakan tsokane ta idan ya siyo mata koda ice-cream ne kafin ta fada

sai ya mak'e murya ya tsokane ta yadda take magana.

"Thank you mu luv."!!

Sai ta harare shi tace "wa ce."?

"Mrs Ukhashatu mana.!!

Sai tayi murmurshi.

Yayan shi ya shirya musu fita kamar yadda ya shirya wa kaninshi sanda akayi bikin shi shima

Zi

yara ce ta kasashe biyu Saudia da Dubai inda sauyi Umra sannan su wuce Dubai.

Jin dadi wajen Hafsah babu misaltuwa tayi godia ga Allah. Sun biya ta gidan Aunty babbar yayar su Ukhashatu a abuja saboda ta can zasu wuce sai da suka kwanan mata daya sannan s

uka wuce.

Ta nuna wa Hafsah soyayya matuk'a da tarairaya..

Jirginsu ya daga inda Hafsah ke cike da farinciki. Taji dadin tafiyar sosai kuma tafiyar tabar mata tarihi mara misaltuwa ta k'ara tabbatar da matsayin ta a zuciyar Ukhasha ya bar mata (memorie

s) da dama da soyayyar shi da bazata iya kwatanta ta da komai ba. Taga kulawa da tarairaya..

Sun shafe watanni biyu a tafiyar..

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Jamila jira take Hafsah ta dawo (domin taji labarin tafiyar su) so take tayi mata albishir da mij

in data samu itama kamar abin wasa a wajen bikin Hafsan sai dai yana da mata amma yayi mata sosai iyayen ta sunyi farin ciki itama.

Basma ta kammala karatu amma shuru duk cikin samarinta babu na aure..Duk da aranta har yanzu tana jin kaunar Nour domin s

onshi ya zame mata jaraba amma babu damar mallakar shi tasan ya riga ya mata nisa sai yanzu take nadamar abinda suka aikata. Nadama mara amfani.

Mahaifiyarta tayi aure mutumin kiri kiri yake nuna wa Basma banbanci da kyara. Dole ta koma gidan mahaifinta s

hima babu yadda ya iya dole ya yarda ta zauna. Duk da zaman gidan babu dad'i aure kawai take so tayi.

Domin anyi bikin auntynta Fatima tun lokacin nata sa ranar, ashe tare Abba yayi niyyar aurar dasu amma ta bujure. Bak'in cikinta shine yadda yawanci ma

te dinsu sunyi aure da 'ya'yayensu tsurari ne suka rage..

Yusuf sai da ya tabbatar anyi auren Hafsah sannan ya rarrashi zuciyar shi dakyar ya shiga neman aure bisa damuwar da maman shi ta nuna sosai kan hakan. Yasa a ranshi bazai auri watststsiya ba.

Haka ya binciko wata yarinya mai siffar kamilai ya kuwa mutu akan sonta. Ashe kara da kiyashi ce daukar mara sani. Bayan chajar shi da suke ita da uwarta akayi auren Sannan ya tabbatar da lallai Dara ce taci gida.

Daga lokacin zaman su ya dawo babu dad'

i kullum cikin fada da cin mutuncin juna. Yana kiranta mara tarbiyya ita ma take buda baki tace ai jirgi daya ya debo mu tunda ka ganni haka Allah ne kadai yasan iri n ayar daka sheke.

Dama ya dawo da komai nashi Nigeria saboda haka sai ya fice sabgar shi

da ta dade bata sashi ido ba. Kullum sukayi fada sai ya tuno da Hafsah ya sani yayi babbar asara..

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Hafsah sun dawo daga tafiya lafiya sunyiwa yan uwa tsara ba tayo wa Hajiyar shi tsara ba ta musamman.

Kowa yayi murna da dawo wa

r su inda suka dawo da murnar samun Baby tun acan dama aka tabbatar tana dauke dashi.

Lokacin Ukhashatu ya maida hankalin kan tsara musu gidansu a gabanta yake tsara zanen yanayi yana tambayarta ranki ya dade yayi nan yayi.."?

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Rayuwarsu abar sha'awa ga kowa. Yadda suke tattalint juna da yadda suke taka tsantsan da juna. Hafsah tayi imanin wannan abin yana samuwa ne sakamakon sirad'in na tarkon Yusuf da ta fiye mishi da babu wannan jin dad'in a rayuwar ta. Tabbas ta gani kuma t

a amincewa zuciyar ta cewa *"THE VIRGINITY OF GIRL IS HER DIGNITY"!..*

Da ta zama watsatstsiya da tuni bata da wani sauran k'ima a idon mijinta da mutane ma baki daya..wai idan ma ta samu mijin auren kenan..

Hafsah ta kuma yarda lallai yawan tarin

dukiya bashi ke kawo kwanciyar hankali da jin dad'in rayuwa ba. Soyayya amincewa juna mutuntawa da tattalin juna sunfi komai taka muhimmiyar rawa. Duk da haka tasan mijin ta kuma bai rageta da komai ba, bata nemi komai ta rasa a wajen shi ba. Sai dai idan

ta kwatanta da irin burikan yan matan yanzu da yadda suke hangen rayuwar wasu da dogon buri zasu kwatanta Ukhashatu cikin tsaka-tsaki (middle class) ta fannin kud'i da tara abubuwan jin dad'in rayuwa. Amma a wajenta Ukhashatu k'arshe ne babu wanda ya fish

i.

Sai yanzu take k'ara ganin abubuwa da dama wanda maman ya Nazeer ta dinga nusar da ita sanda tayi zaman gidanta. A lokacin data ke k'okarin dawo da ita hayyaci.

Bazata manta ba ta tab'a fad'a mata cewa.

_"Zaki samu wanda yafi Yusuf har kiyi alfahar

i dashi."_

Tabbas Yusuf baifi Ukhashatu a komai ba ta fannin wayewa, kyau Nasaba, da kuma iya mu'amala.

Abubuwan da za'a iya kira da 'banbanci sune kamar rayuwar turai da Yusuf yayi wanda ita a wajenta ba wani abun gani bane tunda babu abinda zai ka

ra mata sai ma nisanta mutum da al'adunshi idan ya zama mai sakaci ma da rashin kula sai su jinkirta yanayin addini. AMMA FA GA WASU..MISALI IRIN SU YUSUF. wadanda iyaye ke sakarwa ragamar rayuwar su tun suna yara suyi yadda suke so...amatsayin Yanci.

Kwanci tashi babu wuya Ukhashatu ya kammala musu ginin dankakaren gidansu 'nagani a yaba'

Ranar da yakai Hafsah taga gidan k'asa magana tayi acikin gidan gidane da babu kalar macen da bazata zauna ciki ba. Ya baje barisa wajen tsara ginin gidan.

S

annan a ranar dai duk yayi mata albishir da offer daya samo mata ta aiki a wata ma'aikata ta gidan Jarida sai dai ya fada mata zata fara aiki ne bayan ta ajiye mishi Baby da watanni."

Ta rasa yadda zata nuna mishi jin dadin ta.. sai kawai ta bashi ~war

m hug~sosai yake jinta shima.

_Thank you my luv u're really such a good caring and loving husband.._

"Kiyi shuru mace ta gari..ni da ke babu godia fa."

Haka yake fad'a mata yawancin lukuta idan tana mishi irin wannan godiyar.

Sun dawo gida. Hafsah

ta sanar wa da Mama an kammala gidan ta tura musu photonan sassan gidan. Mama tayi murna sosai dasa albarka gidan ya kawatu a wajenta matuk'a ta kuma gode wa Allah yarta ce zata zauna cikin shi.

Hafsah taji godiyar da tayi bata mata ba don haka suna

zaune suna daddana wayoyinsu ta ta fa "Thank you dear husband.'

Ya ga abin kamar gizo sunan ta ya bayyana ta turo mishi text. Ya duba ya kalleta sai ta mishi murmurshi. Ya nuna ta da yatsa kin ganki koh."

Sai ta kumshe fuska tana dariya.

Haka suke

tafiyar da rayuwar su cikin jin kulawa da gujewa b'acin ran juna su kanyi duk wani abu da zai sa musu nishadi. Misali a lukuta irin na weekend ko sanda bashi da ayyuka sosai in yana gida Hafsah na kirkirar musu abubuwa funny things da zasu sashi nishadi."

Takan ce ya karanta mata ko it ta karanta mishi wani Littafi sai ta kwanta tana sauraron shi tanajin dad'in muryarshi da yanda yake furta turancin.. Yana iya daurewa ya karanta mata da dan dama? kafin tana ganin ya tsaya ko ya chanja yanayin shi zata kwai

kwaye kafin ya fada ta rigashi."

"Na gaji ban iya karanta abubuwan nan naku fah."

Ya nuna kanshi ni kike tsokana koh. Tayi saurin girgiza "A'a..Aa."

Tasan halinshi yanzu zai mata mugunta ko ya matse mata hannu ko baki, kuma bilhaqqi tanajin zafi.

Ta ma kasa gane shin soyayya ce ko kuma mugunta irin ta maza ko baisan tanajin